The Age of Stupidity and Turbulence: Why We Fail in Our Relationships, Marriages, Education, Careers, and Businesses.


Ours is a generation with no heroes, a generation without great inventions, a generation without revolutionary leaders in government, business or communities. Ours is a generation full of average records, ordinary stories and mediocrity. Ours is a generation with no success stories like those of Mohamed Ali, Martin Luther, Nelson Mandela, Gandhi or Abraham Lincoln.

We are living in the age of stupidity, the age of turbulence. Our generation has no foundation on anything, we do not invest time on anything, we want shortcuts, we call it mwendokasi. Follow this author as he explains why our generation fails so much, why poverty is increasing, why we fail in our relationships, marriages, education, careers, and businesses.



We belong to a generation that's devoid of Patience. Never before in the world has a generation lacked the virtue of patience as this one.

We want it fast. We belong to a generation that detests hard work. Everyone gives up so fast. No one is willing to stick in there when things get tough.

We love the highlights of success, the glamour and fame of success yet hate doing the work that goes in producing that success. We want to get the results without investing any time or effort.

The biggest problem of this generation is not unemployment, it's not war, it's not immorality, it's a total lack of patience. We are used to fast food, fast internet, fast this and that so we are not willing to put in the time to get that which we deserve.

We start a business, run it for 6 months then quit. Never before has there been a generation of quitters like this one. We want great weddings, yet hate the actual work of the marriage. We can't stick in relationships or marriages. The moments things get rocky, we run out.

We join companies and expect to earn the salary of a CEO with no experience at all. We apply for two jobs and give up. We have the shortest attention span. We have big dreams yet the lowest of abilities. We expect to build skyscrapers on foundations of huts. We want the big titles without working for them. We are willing to do so little yet expect so much. We are a generation that suffers from entitlement. We are a generation with an ego so big that we can't stand starting small. We lack the humility to start from the bottom of the pile and slowly grow up the ladder.

Not that ambition is bad, but it should be backed by the virtue of hard work and patience. I visited Prof. Waswa Balunywa at his expansive land around Lake Victoria in Entebbe. He told me one thing; "Ian I did not do this in just a year, I bought the first acre in 1996 and I have been adding an acre or two since then. It takes time."

When I meet Baba Sudhir Ruparelia I realize that this is a picture of a man who has put in the time. Before I was born, he was already working. Yet today, we see his results and think we too can have that without putting in the effort.

We need to get honest with ourselves as a generation. We need to imbibe the virtues of patience and hard work or hustle. We need to put in the time to make our marriages work. We need to put in time to make our relationships work. We want to develop our careers yet can't stay at jobs for over 6 months. We have no balance. We move from one thing to another. We are quitters.

We ought to put in our 10,000 hours to mastery. We ought to work at our crafts. We need to laser focus. We are a generation that prides in mediocrity, a generation that doesn't bother to work long at something in order to master it. We are average at everything we do. We do too little of too much and in the end get nothing.

We want to be leaders yet have not spent a single day learning to be followers. We want to climb to the top without taking the ladders. No wonder our heroes are those who've made it in dubious ways, whose paths to success can't be explained. It is no wonder we continue to fall prey to all sorts of pyramid scams like AIM Global. We want to earn millions without doing anything. We want to get something for nothing. We want the cash without giving out any value. No wonder many lost their money to TelexFree. No wonder every arcade has a betting company.

If you are in your early twenties, this is the moment to put in the time. This is the moment to make that investment, a moment to leverage that patience. The long path is always the sure path. We are a generation that wants to take the easy way out, the short cuts, but they are always messy in the end. Put in the time, learn all you can. Develop yourself, your capabilities. Do that background work, work on building that foundation that lasts. The fact is, it's always come down to two virtues; Patience and Hard work aka Hustle. Train while everyone is sleeping, outlearn your competition, don't be short sighted, think longterm. Time will always vindicate those that trust in its virtues.

Written by Ortega Ian Facebook Page

Marriage: In Search of Perfect Match & Soulmate




"MARRIAGE is like a shoe.

When you wear oversize be ready to drag it along throughout life, and when you wear under-size be
ready to feel the pains throughout life." One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is. That is why I thought it necessary to write you this letter.

*Dear Singles,*
When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things:


*Physical appearance*: Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that aligns with your values and belief, the one who you meet at
your life's journey. It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife.


*POSITION*: All sizes of shoes are not placed in the same place. There is a place for court shoes, laced up shoes, sport footwear, snickers etc. We have Children sizes, young people's sizes and the adult sizes. Know where to get your own shoe. Your size cannot be everywhere my brother, your type cannot be everywhere my sister. You cannot be a Christian, and be looking for a wife material at a club. Your wife or husband can't just be everywhere.
Stick to your values and therein you shall find someone like you, but when your values are not defined anyone can just match you. Discover yourself and define your values


*PERCEPTION*: In this kind of shoe purchasing enterprise, you are not permitted to try the shoe before you buy. This is why it is important to seek guidance and counselling, from people who
have bought shoes before or are into the business of directing people to the right shoes (Pastors and Relationship coaches). And most importantly to avoid much time wasting time, simply consult the shoe manufacturer to tell you your size (God Almighty). "You do not prepare for the wedding, you prepare for marriage." Ladies these days get so motivated when they attend wedding and they will quickly want to say yes to that guy. Wait!!! It is not just the wedding oh. The wedding is just one day. After the wedding WHAT NEXT?


Finally, it is not something you rush to the market and just pick a shoe because you like or can purchase it.
Ask questions
-Where is this shoe made from? (Background)
-What's the size (Values)
-How much (His/Her interest)
-How long will it last (His/Her Character)
-Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith this is compatibility)
-Will it match me? (This is whether he/she love you and will accept you the way you are)
Dear one, remember many are dragging their foot and they would hardly reach their destinies, many are feeling endless pains and wish they could pull off the shoes but no way!!! I have seen people with beautiful shoes and when they show you their foot, you will see scars. Beloved, it is not about the physical, it is the size, you can't know the size from afar so come close, build a relationship first
but remember 'you are not permitted to try it before you buy it'. And for those who have purchased the wrong shoes, you can still make it your size again if you'd consult the manufacturer and let Him have His way in your marriage.

*GOD BLESS AND SUSTAIN YOUR MARRIAGES*

What is wrong with Africa: Not Yet Uhuru & The Donald Trump Perspective!

Dar es salaam. The Capital of Tanzania

"Not yet Uhuru" means the independence fought for by the Kenyan/African people had not been achieved. It comes from a title of a book written by the first vice-president of Kenya, The late Oginga Odinga, who observed that despite the country's declared independence, the government led by blacks were as oppressive as the colonial government.

Does Donal Trump Perspective Support Oginga Odinga Perspective?
Donald Trump comments..........White South Africans were the reason South Africa became a successful, peaceful country. Just look at the rest of Africa and the abject failure it is as a continent, and then look at South Africa under Apartheid. South Africa (and Zimbabwe) were the beacons of light on the darkest continent, showing the way forward, becoming the financial hubs of Africa. The Whites built South Africa up; they planned the roads; they planned the factories; they grew the food to feed the nation; they developed the mines (didn't own them though); they were the industrious people who took a land of wild animals, bush and low-IQ blacks and made it the country it was at the time of the handover. Everyone had access to schooling, further education, health, food and policing. All the cornerstones of any civilized society were present in the country.

And then the country was handed over to the black liberation terrorist ANC Party and today we sit with what we see in front of our eyes - proof that sub-Saharan blacks can't make a success of anything, even when given everything on a silver platter. They can't create wealth without taking from someone else. They can't grow food, proved beyond any doubt when once successful farms given to them lie barren and dead, returned to bush. They can't even maintain the education system, which is now in a mess, with the health system not far behind. Crime is out of control. Infrastructure is collapsing. Farmers are being murdered without government standing up and denouncing the slaughter. The blacks can't make sport teams on merit and so have to use quota systems to force teams to incorporate them. They can't get jobs without Affirmative Action being implemented. In short, the ANC has killed the goose that laid the golden eggs. Millions of white South Africans sit outside the country, looking in, waiting for the pin to finally drop. The hungry, forgotten blacks look with big eyes at their leaders who live in obscene luxury whilst they scratch in dirt for food.

This is what Africa is all about. Tribalism and status, and using their fellow man to get to the top, and once there, forgetting their fellow man. White South Africans knew all of this. They knew the black-man's behavior. They knew what he was capable of. The rest of the world tried convincing every one that they knew better than the people living day-to-day with them, for hundreds of years. And they continued to agitate for them to take the country over.

Well, reality has certainly met the rainbow nation dream and it's not looking too good... My, my, look how far South Africa has devolved under the black man. I would love to say that I'm shocked, but I would be lying. Welcome to reality...
Trump spoke publicly again on 25 October 2015, when he appeared on CBS' Sunday morning political interview show Face the Nation. In the interview Trump has expressed his deep disgust for Africans by referring to them as lazy fools only good at eating, lovemaking and thuggery.

"African Americans are very lazy. The best they can do is gallivanting around ghettoes, lamenting how they are discriminated. These are the people America doesn’t need. They are the enemies of progress. Look at African countries like Kenya for instance, those people are stealing from their own government and go to invest the money in foreign countries. From the government to opposition, they only qualify to be used as a case study whenever bad examples are required. How do you trust even those who have ran away to hide here at the United States hiding behind education? I hear they abuse me in their blogs but I don't care because even the internet they are using is ours and we can decide to switch it off from this side. These are people who import everything including matchsticks. In my opinion, most of these African countries ought to be recolonized again for another 100 years because they know nothing about leadership and self-governance" Explained Donald Trump bitterly as he illuminated how he plans to reconstruct America and restore its lost glory.

 

Beautiful Letter Written by a Father to His Son and Daughter



Dedicated to Alliyah Johnson & Malyia Kamota in Canton, Ohio




Dear daughters

I am writing this to you because of 3 reasons...

1. Life, fortune and mishaps are unpredictable, nobody knows how long he lives.

2. I am your father, and if I don't tell you these, no one else will.

3. Whatever written is my own personal bitter experiences that perhaps could save you a lot of unnecessary heartaches.

Remember the following as you go through life.

1. Do not bear grudge towards those who are not good to you. No one has the responsibility of treating you well, except your mother and I.

To those who are good to you, you have to treasure it and be thankful, and ALSO you have to be cautious, because, everyone has a motive for every move. When a person is good to you, it does not mean he really will be good to you. You have to be careful, don't hastily regard him as a real friend.

2. No one is indispensable, nothing is in the world that you must possess._

Once you understand this idea, it would be easier for you to go through life when people around you don't want you anymore, or when you lose what you wanted the most.

3. Life is short.
When you waste your life today, tomorrow you would find that life is leaving you. The earlier you treasure your life, the better you enjoy life.

4. Love is nothing but a transient feeling, and this feeling would fade with time and with one's mood. If your so called loved one leaves you, be patient, time will wash away your aches and sadness.

Don't over exaggerate the beauty and sweetness of love, and don't over exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love.

5. A lot of successful people did not receive a good education, that does not mean that you can be successful by not studying hard! Whatever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life.

One can go from rags to riches, but one has to start from some rags!

6. I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, neither would I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether you want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine, whether rich or poor.

7. You honour your words, but don't expect others to be so. You can be good to people, but don't expect people to be good to you. If you don't understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles.

8. I have bought lotteries for umpteen years, but could never strike any prize. That shows if you want to be rich, you have to work hard! There is no free lunch!

9. No matter how much time I have with you, let's treasure the time we have together. We do not know if we would meet again in our next life.

Pls read
Your Parent


Written by a renowned Hong Kong TV Broadcaster and Child Psychologist.

Direction is so Much More Important Than Speed or Destination


Lesson #1
A Rabbit runs, jumps, moves faster and lives for only fifteen years while a Tortoise doesn't even attempt any of such activities but lives for 150 years or more.

LESSON: Life is not about rushing, comparisons and doing what others are doing but rather keep calm and do what is right and what you are called to do. Direction is so much more important than speed, many are going nowhere fast. They may live in the same forest with the same color and play together but we must remember that we will have age mates, class mates, school mates, office mates but there is no 'destiny mate' in this life. Be who you are called to be, love who you are and thank God for your special journey which may not look like others! It's not where you are from, it's where you are going now that matters. Everybody gets knocked down sometimes. What matter is how quick you are gonna get up and keep on moving.

This is the simplest way to succeed in life!! God bless you, and keep looking forward because those beside you are not going where you are exactly going......
Witten by Bishop Kingsley
ELECT OF GOD MINISTRIES (BRIDE OF CHRIST FELLOWSHIP) - SPAIN


Lesson #2

The engine of a giant ship failed to start.

The ship's owners tried one expert after another, but none of them could figure out how to fix the engine.

Then they brought in an old man who had been fixing ships since he was a youngster. He carried a large bag of tools with him, and when he arrived, he immediately went to work. He inspected the engine very carefully, top to bottom.

Two of the ship's owners were there, watching this man, hoping he would know what to do. After looking things over, the old man reached into his bag and pulled out a small hammer. He gently tapped something. Instantly, the engine lurched into life. He carefully put his hammer away. The engine was fixed!

A week later, the owners received a bill from the old man for ten thousand dollars.

"What?!" the owners exclaimed. "He hardly did anything!"

So they wrote the old man a note saying, "Please send us an itemized bill."

The man sent a bill that read:

Tapping with a hammer $ 2.00
Knowing where to tap $ 9998.00

Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort makes all the difference!

Direction is so much more important than speed, many are going nowhere fast

Source: https://www.facebook.com/drbencarson/posts/1023584811089690